Yeah you got it right. Its been a long break and back as a married man. And life has changed a lot. Manchester Utd back to top 4 after a year long slump. Modi is the new PM of India and lots more.
As back the first post after the marriage this is one will be about relationship.
Nowadays many of my friends are getting married and much more are into the question of to or not to do. The question is what is the issue whether to plunge or not. Hmmm lets analyze a bit. I will put only one perspective coz i dont know the other one....
One of the major concern is no late night parties with friends or roaming around. Guys feel they will be trapped. My advice would be you are marrying a girl who is going to be your wife, your better half not some "angrezon ke jamane ka jailor". Human beings are not supposed to be nocturnal animals. But the animal instinct in us does not lets us think straight. The solution to this would be... its ok to party sometimes late night with friends but not always, that way u keep satisfied your nocturnal animal and also the better half happy.
There are both pros and cons of a marriage. One of my friends says, the pros will reduce after 5 years after marriage. I would like to say, its not like that. Its how you build up the relationship. It will depend like whether you can smoke a joint with her or share a beer or just plain roti and dal. The success mantra for a good relationship would be flexibility. Make the rules accordingly and then bend it as per liking.
Read a book "Men are from mars women are from venus by john gray" pre marriage. Believe me it will do a lot of good.
Your wife is your better half and so are you of her. So the best would be to suppress each others not so good qualities and enhance the better ones. Tread a middle path and believe first that there is a middle path and there will always be one. Go back a few years down the lane, to school or college or engg etc. Do you remember how you made that friend who matters now a lot to you. Apply a similar principle, and things will be smooth.
To end with, its up to you how you perceive:
W.I.F.E: Worry Invited For Ever OR
W.I.F.E: Wisdom Invited For Ever
The choice is yours.
As back the first post after the marriage this is one will be about relationship.
Nowadays many of my friends are getting married and much more are into the question of to or not to do. The question is what is the issue whether to plunge or not. Hmmm lets analyze a bit. I will put only one perspective coz i dont know the other one....
One of the major concern is no late night parties with friends or roaming around. Guys feel they will be trapped. My advice would be you are marrying a girl who is going to be your wife, your better half not some "angrezon ke jamane ka jailor". Human beings are not supposed to be nocturnal animals. But the animal instinct in us does not lets us think straight. The solution to this would be... its ok to party sometimes late night with friends but not always, that way u keep satisfied your nocturnal animal and also the better half happy.
There are both pros and cons of a marriage. One of my friends says, the pros will reduce after 5 years after marriage. I would like to say, its not like that. Its how you build up the relationship. It will depend like whether you can smoke a joint with her or share a beer or just plain roti and dal. The success mantra for a good relationship would be flexibility. Make the rules accordingly and then bend it as per liking.
Read a book "Men are from mars women are from venus by john gray" pre marriage. Believe me it will do a lot of good.
Your wife is your better half and so are you of her. So the best would be to suppress each others not so good qualities and enhance the better ones. Tread a middle path and believe first that there is a middle path and there will always be one. Go back a few years down the lane, to school or college or engg etc. Do you remember how you made that friend who matters now a lot to you. Apply a similar principle, and things will be smooth.
To end with, its up to you how you perceive:
W.I.F.E: Worry Invited For Ever OR
W.I.F.E: Wisdom Invited For Ever
The choice is yours.
